What to get my boyfriends sister for christmas

I remember when I first spent the Holidays with my boyfriend’s family. The most stressful part wasn’t, in fact, wearing matching Christmas onesies awkwardly around the house (true story). Figuring out what gifts to buy each member of his family was by far the most stressful part of the week. I had only met them once and really wanted to make a good impression.

Gifts for his family can say a lot about you. You don’t want to go too cheap, or they’ll think you don’t care. But then again you don’t want to spend more than $50 per person or you’ll go broke (and they may think you’re a bit cray cray). There is a happy medium, though, where you don’t have to spend too much but still be thoughtful and show your personality. Like this domino set for his dad. How cute?? So I’ve rounded up a gift guide for each member of his family below — all under $50! Now you can relax. :)

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First comes love, then comes marriage—then comes a new group of relatives to shop for! All jokes aside, nuptials don't just unite two people, they unite two whole families. A great way to nurture your relationship with your in-laws is to show them you care on special occasions, like birthdays and holidays. Searching for the best gift for your sister-in-law? Leave the rest of your research to us.

Gifts for sisters-in-law don't have to be extravagant. Instead, as they say, it's the thought that counts. If you know her well, prove it with a present that honors her hobbies, personality or interests. If you aren't super close, ask relatives for guidance or go with something more generic that anyone could use—as long as it still feels heartfelt. Below, you'll find a slew of gift ideas for sisters-in-law of any sort, from a future SIL you really, really want to win over, to a longtime family member you consider a best friend. We've found something for anyone and any celebration, be it Christmas or her birthday.

1. Cotton Slippers

If there is one gift everyone loves (yes, even your sister-in-law who has everything) it's luxe loungewear. Help her kick her feet up and relax with a pair of plush 100% Turkish cotton slippers. They're an especially fitting holiday gift if your mother-in-law insists on matching pajamas every Christmas.

2. Phenomenal Woman Wine Glasses

Remind your bonus sister of her beauty, strength and spirit with this sentimental set of stemless wine glasses. They're printed with the uplifting verses from Maya Angelou's poem "Phenomenal Woman," which celebrates femininity in all its power. Pair it with her favorite bottle of vino and a promise to have a girls' night-in soon.

3. Initial Necklace

Jewelry is always a good gift idea for your sister-in-law, and this dainty initial necklace from Gorjana is a trendy and personal option. It's made from 18K gold-plated brass with an adjustable chain so it can easily stack with their existing baubles. Do you have more than one sister-in-law? This gift is great for all of them while still being unique to the individual.

4. Luxury Perfume Sampler

Not sure about your sister-in-law's favorite perfume? No problem. This gift set of pen sprays from Tory Burch's Essence of Dreams Collection will let her sample new, luxe scents—and possibly find a new favorite. Plus, the convenient travel size lets her keep one in her purse, car and office desk so she can refresh anywhere at any time.

5. Custom Phone Case

Is your SIL obsessed with her furry friend? Surprise her with a custom illustration of her beloved pet printed on a phone case for literally the cutest gift ever. Don't let the model of honor miss out on a gift either—pick up dog or cat treats at the store before heading to her house for the party.

6. Monthly Tea Subscription

Whether your sister-in-law is a long-time tea drinker or picked up the habit after binge-watching Bridgerton, she'll love a subscription to Atlas Tea Club. Each month, they'll send her a new bag of loose-leaf tea from far-flung locals like Colombia and Indonesia to enjoy. Best of all, it's delivered in sustainable packaging.

7. Silk Sleep Set

If you really want your sister-in-law to like you, gift her a highly sought-after silk sleep set. This gift box from Blissy comes with a silk pillowcase, eye mask and two scrunchies so she can improve her hair and skin health (not to mention sleep hygiene) with zero effort. On a budget? Each item in the set is also sold separately.

8. Stylish Sling Back Bag

Sling backs are the bag of the year. From belt bags to cross-bodies everyone (including your sister-in-law) wants a small purse they can easily throw on for style, convenience and safety. We're personally obsessed with Anthropologie's vegan leather sling-back bag with intricately stitched straps. It comes in lots of colors (like chocolate, cream, black and even red or green) so you can match the purse to her capsule wardrobe.

9. Gel Manicure Kit

Looking for a fun and unique gift for your sister-in-law? A gel nail polish kit is everything she didn't know she needed. From colors to cuticle care tools, this kit comes with all the salon essentials for a fancy gel manicure at home. She'll love saving money and picking up a new hobby. (Pro tip: Pair it with a small bottle of sunscreen to protect her skin from UV light every time she wants to paint her nails.)

10. Birthdate Candle

If you're new to the family and not sure what birthday gift to get your sister-in-law (and your spouse is being no help at all about her interests), look no further than Birthdate Candles. The brand creates a unique candle for every single day of the year with detailed labels on astrology, numerology and tarot to decipher the personalities of people born on that date. How fun is that?

11. Gourmet Candy

No matter what holiday you're shopping for, gourmet candy is always a welcome gift idea for your sister-in-law (or really any of your in-laws). This charming bento box from Sugarfina comes with gummy Peach Bellinis and Rosé Roses as well as Lemon Shortbread Cookie bites—yum! You can also create your own gift box and choose from dozens of chocolates and gummies that you know she'll love.

12. Flower Delivery

If you're shopping for a gift for your long-distance sister-in-law's birthday, but don't have time to mail something yourself, let BloomsyBox do all the work. With expedited delivery options, they'll send a beautiful bouquet right to her door on the day of your choosing. She'll never know it was a last-minute idea.

13. Custom Illustration

Is your sister-in-law your best friend? (Dream come true!) Gift her a sweet, custom illustration of the two of you accompanied by a sentimental quote like "Because I have a sister, I will always have a friend."

14. Monogrammed Travel Organizer

Make travel (and packing!) easier for her with this chic organizer. It's crafted from vegan leather and boasts two zippered compartments: a top pocket for cosmetics and a bottom one for jewelry. Want a personalized gift for your sister-in-law? Add a foil debossed monogram.

15. Volumizing Mascara

Mascara is pretty much the one makeup product you can buy someone without needing to match their skin color—score! Slip this volumizing and lengthening mascara from the popular beauty brand Too Faced into her stocking for a winning holiday gift for your sister-in-law.

16. Popstar Clips

If your sister-in-law already owns plenty of claw clips and scrunchies, gift her the newest, emerging hair trend: popstar clips. She can use them to keep her freshly curled hair away from her face while she applies makeup without any fear of creases or as a fun way to style a half-updo.

17. Kitchen Towels

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Does your sister-in-law have the most aesthetically pleasing home you've ever seen? Add to her interior style with these fun geometric tea towels. Not only will they up the color in her kitchen, but the soft microfiber fabric means they're ultra-absorbent and quick-drying. And better still, they're made from recycled plastic bottles!

18. All-In-One Vegetable Chopper

If you're not close with your sister-in-law, practical gifts are the way to go. This multi-blade, adjustable mandoline and dicer is the only kitchen gadget she'll ever need. It can cut, shred and grate all kinds of veggies, fruits and cheeses for easy meal prep throughout the week. With over 16,000 positive reviews, this popular gadget will make a great holiday, birthday or even a bridal shower or wedding gift for your sister-in-law.

19. Plush Throw Blanket

Speaking of wedding gifts for your sister-in-law (or if you want to splurge for her birthday), you have to check out Sunday Citizen. Their bed linens are possibly the softest on the Internet. Gift her (and her soon-to-be-spouse) their signature Casablanca Throw for a plush (it's double knit for extra fluffiness), oversized blanket they'll love to cuddle with. It's even hypoallergenic and thermoregulating for extra comfort.

20. Birthstone Earrings

The best sister-in-law gifts for her birthday are personal—which can actually be easier to shop for than you might think. These gold hoop earrings are adorned with her "birthstone" (cubic zirconia in the birthstone color) and are gorgeous for everyday wear or special occasions.

21. Boba Bubble Tea Kit

In-laws or bes-teas? For a unique gift for your sister-in-law, try this boba tea kit. It includes four tea flavors like chai, matcha or Earl grey, plus tapioca pearls and creamer so she can enjoy the refreshing, Insta-worthy concoction at home.

22. Inspirational Book

Are you constantly calling your sister-in-law for advice? Give the pep talk right back with this inspirational book She Inspires. Inside she'll find statements and quotes that honor her beauty and wisdom—talk about a confidence-boosting coffee table book!

23. Abercrombie & Fitch Gift Card

Brace yourself, Abercrombie & Fitch is back in fashion (and they have seriously great basics). Gift your sister-in-law what she really wants—more clothes!—with a gift card to the clothing brand. If you're close (in friendship and location), pair it with a note that promises to go shopping with her. After all, everyone needs a second opinion in the fitting room!

24. Magnetic Charging Stand

Fun tech gadgets are high on everyone's holiday wishlist. While there's no expectation that you'll get your sister-in-law the new iPhone, you'll still get brownie points by gifting this wireless charger. The magnetic stand lets her easily use her device (no cutting video calls short because of a low battery) while the base can simultaneously charge her wireless headphones. How handy is that?

25. At-Home Wine Tasting

Shopping for an oenophile? A bottle of wine is a tried-and-true gift for any occasion, but for your sister-in-law, you'll want to go the extra mile. In Good Taste delivers flights of wines so she can host an at-home wine tasting for her friends (which hopefully will include you). Choose a gift pack of whites, reds or rosés or give a gift card so she can pick the wine herself.

26. Heart-Shaped Succulent

Show her you love her—and believe in her green thumb!—with this cheeky Hoya Kerrii succulent plant. It's practically foolproof to care for and even comes in a cute ceramic pot so it's instantly ready for its shelfie.

27. Disney Mug

Even if you're new to the family, you know: If there is one thing your sister-in-law (or future SIL) loves, it's Disney. This classic Fantasia-themed mug brings the magic with its color-changing design. As it's filled with a hot drink, Sorcerer Mickey Mouse is surrounded by lively brooms. How's that for a unique sister-in-law gift?

28. "Bonus Sister" Necklace

This cute necklace comes attached to a card addressed specifically to your "bonus sister." The linked rings represent your unique bond, but to passersbys who don't know the backstory, they're just plain pretty. It's a subtle-but-sentimental gift for your sister-in-law on her wedding day or your first holiday as family.

29. Margarita Kit

Take inspiration from you and your sister-in-law's favorite pastime: Taco Tuesdays. This gift set comes with crystal cocktail glasses, a rim dipper, spicy syrup and dehydrated lime wedges so she has everything she needs to whip up homemade margaritas (plus, a dark chocolate bar for good measure). Ahh, refreshing! Pro tip: This also makes a great date night package if you're searching for a bridal shower or wedding gift for your sister-in-law and her partner.

30. Chic Stone Diffuser

Housewarming gift idea alert! This ultra-sophisticated stone diffuser will look and smell simply amazing in your sister-in-law's home. She can kick back, relax and take in the scent of her favorite essential oils like bergamot, lavender or eucalyptus.

31. Luxury Bath Set

Encourage self-care with a complete bathtub gift set. Not only does it come with a premium bamboo tray so she has a place for her book (or glass of wine) while she soaks, but it also has vanilla-scented bath essentials and fragrant bath bombs. Now, just offer to watch her kids while she gets her R&R on.

32. Celebrity Video Message

Your sister-in-law will love hearing from you on her birthday, but she'll especially love hearing from her favorite celebrity. Browse Cameo's star-studded lineup of actors, musicians, TV personalities and more before ordering a personalized message from them to her.

33. Kate Spade Picture Frame

Whatever the occasion, be it Christmas, her birthday or her wedding, a striking picture frame is a classic gift idea. If you're especially close with your sister-in-law, pre-fill it with a picture of the two of you—you know, the one where you both look great.

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