Show Download Article Being attracted to another person can be a wonderful experience. Attraction stirs your interests and desires in a way that few emotions can. It just feels special! Figuring out if you’re actually attracted to someone isn't always a straightforward process, though. The human mind works in mysterious ways and we often mistake appreciation or platonic love for attraction. Don't worry if you're feeling unsure or conflicted right now—doing a little soul-searching before pursuing a new relationship is normal and healthy.
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Advertisement ReferencesAbout This ArticleArticle SummaryX If you’re not sure whether you’re attracted to someone, you can know for sure by examining your subconscious behavior and processing your feelings. Take some time to ask yourself how often you think about the person and if you can’t control it. If you’re not attracted to someone, you probably won't think of them very often. When you’re around this person, take note if your heart rate rises since your body will naturally have a physical reaction to someone you are attracted to. While your physical response to someone says a lot about your feelings, you should also reflect on their character and whether they’re someone you admire. Think about their positive qualities and identify any behaviors or attributes they have that might be dealbreakers. For more help, including how to find out if they are attracted to you too, read on! Did this summary help you? Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 208,367 times. Did this article help you?How do you know if you are just sexually attracted to someone?The clearest way to tell if you're sexually attracted to someone is to ask yourself whether or not you physically want to have sex with them. If the answer is yes, you're sexually attracted to them.
What makes you sexually attracted to someone?Hormones and Neurotransmitters
Attraction is also partly determined by our sense of smell, and what is referred to as pheromones. Higher levels of oxytocin and dopamine may also increase the level of attraction. So, as you can see, there are many factors affecting whether we feel attracted to someone or not.
How do you know if you are physically attracted?Physical signs of attraction:. Pupils dilate when they look at you. ... . Blushing and flushed skin. ... . Tonal voice changes. ... . Open body language. ... . Leaning closer to you. ... . Mirroring your behavior. ... . Sneaky gestures to enhance their appearance. ... . Increase in body temperature.. |