Can i use conditioner as lube

Gay sex is a wonderland of fluids, liquids, lotions, and lubes — and a smart bottom is basically a chemist. We have to know which substances irritate the anal lining and which ones do not (do not use anything with tea tree oil), which lubes work with latex condoms and which ones do not, and how to get creative in a pinch, when all you have at your disposal is a kitchen, bathroom, or garage.

Even before you get greased up, most guys prep for sex by douching with water, which is generally considered harmless as long as you release all of it. If you use a douching bulb, hose, or enema, you will probably need to use some kind of lube. If you douche in the shower, as many guys do, you will need to use a silicone or oil-based lube that will not wash off with water (or a good, unscented hair conditioner made of natural oils).

For sex, gay men have an unlimited buffet of lubes to choose from, all with different features, benefits, and uses. Silicone lube is super slick and safe to use with latex condoms, but it’s expensive, stains sheets, and cannot be used with silicone toys. Water-based lube dries up quickly but is toy safe. Oil-based lubes are some of the slickest on the market and good for most toys, but they cannot be used with latex condoms. Decisions, decisions!

You will at least need to use something because, unlike the vagina, the ass does not produce its own natural lubricant, and sex will be miserable without it. Most guys discover their favorite lube(s) through trial and error (I did), but sometimes you need some help with the hunt. Check out these 30 liquids that feature in the wonderful world of gay sex. Let's get soakin' wet!

ALEXANDER CHEVES has written articles on sex, dating, and relationships for GC magazine and The Advocate. Alex is not a doctor, but he has played doctor many times. This article describes Alex’s experiences, and caution should be taken with all sexual practices. A person is responsible for his own health and well being. Follow his blog, The Beastly Ex-Boyfriend.

Multipurpose products are a great way to maximize what you already have, allowing you to save money and luggage space when you're traveling. Lip, cheek and eye colors are the most common and obvious ones, but sometimes an unexpected beauty hack provides alternative usage! 

A member of the PVC Facebook Group recently raved about a hack that we'd never heard of before. Instead of the usual hair gel, Katrina used water-based lubricant as a styler for her curly hair and got great results! We were definitely intrigued and had to test this out for ourselves. 

Can i use conditioner as lube

But first, what is the Curly Girl Method?

Also known as "CGM", this hair care method is based on Lorraine Massey's book Curly Girl: The Handbook. It outlines the right routine, techniques, and even ingredients to keep curly hair healthy and celebrate its natural growth rather than trying to flatten and straighten it.

The CGM is quite detailed, but here are some of the basic concepts that it advocates:

  • Avoid ingredients like non-water soluble silicone, sulfates, and drying alcohols. 

  • Shampoo should be used rarely (maximum of once a week). After lurking around a CGM Facebook page for more than a year, I learned that most girls do not wash their hair every day as this disrupts the curls. 

  • Some people choose to co-wash (use conditioner for cleansing) instead of shampoo. The CGM also suggests specific ways to applying the conditioner, such as squishing it on the hair and possibly not rinsing it out, and "scrunching out the scrunch" after styling gel has dried to prevent crunchy-looking curls. (Note that non-CGM-approved conditioners may have drying alcohols and should always be rinsed out). CGM also suggests deep conditioning the hair at least once a week.

  • To help maintain the shape of curls, gel is commonly used as a styling product for curly hair, but the ingredients must be CGM-approved. To find out if a product is CGM-approved, you can head over to curlsbot.com and input the product ingredients there.

Do I personally follow CGM?

Despite the beautiful results I've seen from others, I find it difficult to commit to CGM because it requires more time and effort than my current routine. It also deviates from what I feel comfortable doing. 

CGM users aren't supposed to wash their hair every day, and are encouraged to help prolong their curls by using silk pillowcases or wrapping their hair while sleeping. Some also opt to reapply product during no-wash to refresh their curls. 

Meanwhile, I prefer to wash my hair daily, and find it difficult to be careful with my hair as I struggle to find a comfortable sleeping position. I do follow some of the suggestions, though, such as using a CGM-approved shampoo and conditioner. My current faves are the Zenutrients Coco Honey Shampoo and Conditioner, a combo that makes my hair feel very moisturized! I also leave conditioner in my hair, and dry with a microfiber towel. I find that this routine really feels gentler on my hair, and makes a difference in bringing out my curls beautifully!

Can i use conditioner as lube

Lube on my curls

To help maintain definition and shape, CGM recommends applying hair gel and gently scrunching hair to develop curls. Unfortunately, a lot of commercial hair gels contain alcohol, which is a no-no ingredient in CGM. 

To test this hack, I purchased a tube of EZ Lubricating Jelly (P32.50 for 10ml and P175.25 for 75ml), which is easy enough to find in Watsons and even convenience stores. There were no ingredients listed in any of the packaging but a quick Google search shows that it simply contains a mix of glycerin and water. Glycerin is a common cosmetic ingredient famous for its humectant properties, so it helps maintain moisture and softness. 

I used about two dollops of the lubricant, and I scrunched it from below the crown down to the tips of my hair while it was still damp from washing. The product is odorless and pretty viscous but I found it very easy to spread and non-stick, so a little went a long way. I left my hair to air dry, and was pleasantly surprised that the lube not only helped to shape my curls well, but also held them up on a hot, humid day! It made my hair feel a little bit crunchy, but much less than a hair gel normally would.

Can i use conditioner as lube

Do I recommend this hack? Yes, I do, but I probably won't repurchase for this purpose because there are other CGM-approved styling products available. Still, it's good to know that this works if you don't have access to other products or prefer a super short ingredient list. 

As with skincare, your mileage may vary (YMMV) so test on a small area of skin first. Also, remember that the Curly Girl Method is a cumulative process - the longer you do it, the better the results will be.

Do you follow CGM? Would you consider trying this hack? 

Source: Naturally curly

Product photography by Nicole Quindara

Previous

Rave: The Anastasia Luminous Foundation is the perfect base for healthy skin

FoundationSamantha GonzalesJanuary 8, 2020Anastasia Beverly Hills, foundation, liquid foundation

Next

New Year, Better You: Six ways to care for your mental health

Health & WellnessGett BaladadJanuary 6, 2020mental health, health, new year, Better You series

Can you use conditioner to jerk?

Never use soap, shampoo, conditioner or shaving cream, as these can cause a burning feeling in the urethra. If you do it anyway, beware that peeing and ejaculating may be painful for several days, but the stinging will subside.

Is vegetable oil a safe lube?

"Like olive oil, vegetable oil isn't ideal for vaginal penetration, but can be used by most people as an external vaginal or anal lubricant," Caitlin V. says. For sex toys: It's generally compatible with silicone, glass, and metal sex toys, according to Caitlin V.

Can you use argan oil of Morocco as lube?

BENEFITS & USES SEXUAL LUBRICANT Argan oil is delicate and makes a wonderful sensual lubricant.